“Don’t chase butterflies, mend your garden and butterflies will come”.
This quote is very true in every aspect of life. If you chase after money, money will run away from you. If you chase after women, women will run away from you. Instead, we should cultivate a habit of building values. The values can be in the form of building better products, better services, better systems for your clients.
If you want to get a woman that you desire, focus on building values for yourself. You can start to exercise, improve yourself through reading, meditation, work on life’s challenges and work towards excellence. Also practice delayed gratification. It has been shown that the most successful people on Earth are the people who are patient and can delay their rewards.
Build your life into a beautiful garden and the butterflies you want will come. Spend your time chasing them with a net and dragging them to your garden and they’ll just fly away.